Victor and I are over. Even though I didn’t want to end it, I had to. I had lost all trust in him. I had read evidence of his “foul play” and he denied that it was of his doing when I had confronted him about it. He convinced me that, “Nothing was going on” and I let it go, until I read more evidence of a couple more “incidents” and yet again he would deny it when confronted about it.
I couldn’t live with it anymore but I didn’t want to end it completely with him. I hate being lied to. I didn’t know what to do…
So with my uncertainty and my brainwashing by others in my life… I was taken over to Victor’s place, last night by my brother to collect my last bit of belongings that were still in the apartment. And I had to tell him that our relationship was over.
I didn’t want to end it but I had to do so, “Or else…”
oh my randi. maybe its just better this way.
I agree. I think as much as it may hurt right now, in the long run you won’t kick your ass for it. You will be much happier, and have a sense of relief as it has been lifted off your shoulders.
aw hun *hug*. It’s for the best thou
Awww Randi - I’m sorry. But I do agree that if there isn’t trust, then things can’t progress. It’ll just drive you crazy not knowing what he’s up to. *hugs* Like everyone here up top says - maybe it’s for the best!
I’m very sorry to hear about Victor and you, i hope everything works out for you(meaning just you) in the end.
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Chris