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Fuck You, Mr & Mrs K!

Victor left for Welkom early on Christmas day as his father wanted him there because his mother was ill. He came back to Krugersdorp on January 2nd.

I wasn’t able to get a hold of Victor on his mobile phone most of the days while he was in Welkom, I only spoke to him briefly a few times when I was able to get through to him on his mobile phone.

I would call his parents’ house and ask to speak with him as I wasn’t able to when calling his mobile phone. His father would tell me that Victor was either in town, with his friend, Riaan or that “He was not there”. So I would ask Victor’s father if he could tell Victor to call me back. I called on New Year’s Eve to wish Victor a happy new year and I was told by his father that Victor was at a party at his old high school. And one time I called and I could hear Victor in the background speaking with his mother… So I thought that he was busy and once again asked to have Victor call me back.

Victor never called me back.

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Pass The Ice, Please!

I haven’t been feeling too well recently and the summer heat isn’t helping me out one bit. All I want to is lay down with the windows open and sleep while the cool wind brushes against my skin. I might just go do that after I’m done typing this blog post.

Life has been uneasy, for lack of a better word. Victor and I have been fighting more these days than ever; over little things mostly. But you’d think we were fighting over something of more importance and not of something so simple.

The other time was when Victor had promised that he would help me clean the apartment by sweeping the floors and then I would wash them and do everything else. This was to be done before we’d go to my mother’s place to use her washing machine then make it back home before his friends, Riaan and Tanya came over for that weekend. But that morning he decides to go all the way to Makro instead of the mall close by to get Riaan’s birthday gift and gets back home much later than he should have… That was when I had just done all the cleaning by myself. But he walked in the door with a bottle of bubble bath and the part one of Heroes season one on DVD for me, just to say sorry…

He’s such a softie and cares way too much. I love him.

Wonton wrapped prawns with sweet chili sauceOn Wednesday night I prepared a couple of Woolworths sweet & sour noodle boxes and some wonton wrapped prawns, served with sweet chili sauce. It was delicious!

I just couldn’t believe that I struggled so much when using the chopsticks… I was pretty good when I first ate with chopsticks, but now it’s like I never held a pair in my hands, ha!

I need to practice, I think…

My bed is calling out my name, I’m going to have a nap now and deal with the dirty dishes in my sink when I wake up because I really can’t be bothered to do so at this very moment.

Life is Consciousness

So far my day has consisted of mainly one thing; looking for an apartment.

Victor called me this morning after calling the letting agent and told me that they are still busy with the administration of our application and lease. He said that he answered an advertisement for an apartment in our town and that he’s made an appointment for us to have a look at it on Saturday… So we are looking for another apartment and if we find one we like, we’ll apply for it and go with whoever gets the administration done first.

I’ve spent most of my morning looking at the property papers and sending advertisements via text message to Victor so that he can call and make the viewing appointments for this Saturday. I really like the apartment we already applied for but maybe there is another apartment somewhere else that looks good too and maybe even costs less.

My engagement ring got damaged the other day, well its actually broken. One of the two joints that held the outer two bands had broke somehow. I was rubbing my right forearm with my left hand and it felt like the ring was scratching my arm, and that’s when I found it was broken. Victor thinks it was bent, so it must have been when someone touched it when I didn’t have it on. Victor said that he and I will go to a jeweler next month or so to find out if it can be fixed. I hope so because I really like my ring…